I was referring to men. Appearance doesn't really make much difference. If someone has an issue with sharing space with men, then I trust that they are reporting honestly on their feelings. Of course, I don't know exactly why, since I am not such a person. Is it because they don't want to share a bathroom with someone who might find them attractive? Well, then Wellesley should have separate dorms for heterosexual female students only, so they don't have to share space with lesbian or bi women. Is it because they don't want to be in the same building with a penis? Well, it's not like you actually ever *see* the genitalia of your dorm-mates unless you (and they) really want that to happen...
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