I think we've all used such language, and trans people aren't excluded from that either. And I'm sure I use language now that in ten years I'll consider fucked up. It's just important to be able to adjust to the times and recognize that you might have been using words that were less than considerate without it making you a bad person.

Feel free to ask the question here if you're comfortable doing so on a public post. If not, you know how to reach me in more private channels :-)